That common word :)

In pursuit of happiness

Instead of letting go we’re attached to many things that are a source of stress and pain. Maybe today is the day you should start to slowly fight them? Are you ready to read some little tips that will allow you to have a happier life?  Let’s do this!

·         Abandon the inner voice that is telling you to always be right.
Many of us can’t even think of the possibility that they could be wrong. However, none of us are infallible. Is it worth to risk a valuable relationship in order to make our egos content?

·         Get rid of negative thoughts about yourself.
Most of those thoughts are irrational or unjustifiable and what is more they’re auto-destructive. Just think about it: you should NEVER let those thoughts to define you.
They say, in order to make people love you, first you need to love yourself.

·         Change convictions that are constricting you.
Stop dividing things into those that you can do and those that for sure you won’t be able to attain. Don’t let the lack of self-esteem stop you from dreaming.

·         Stop moaning and complaining.
Are you constantly complaining about people, situations that are making your life miserable or making you feel unsatisfied, unhappy or sad? Those are not the reasons why you’re feeling like that. The real guilt in here is your way of perceiving reality. Nothing can make you sad or depressed, unless you’ll allow it to do so.

·         Criticising others is not a solution.
Stop rejecting things that are different, atypical or unusual. We are all so different and so similar at the same time. for instance, think about the need of acceptance for every human you encounter. 

·         Learn how to conquer your fears
Franklin D. Roosevelt said: ‘Only thing we have to fear is fear itself’
you’re the one who can control whether you’ll let the fear dominate you or not.
I know that this one might be a hard one to achieve but think about it this way: fear is something that is created by none but you thus you.

·         Let go of the past

The presence is all that you have! We can regret our past but you can’t change it. |You can mould your future and you can dream about it. However, you can’t plan it. The present is only time where you can actually live, so MAKE THE MOST OF IT!!!

At the end, let me just recommend you one amazing movie which, by the way, is one of my favourite ones. It’s a story of a man who never gives up on his dreams. I won’t tell you more as I think you should definitely check it out for yourself!!!

It is called The pursuit of happiness. 

20 pounds

Hello there, today I've had a bit of a rough day. Normally I don’t like to be negative but sometimes it seems like the whole world is against you… 

Then I remember: don’t give up no matter what! don’t ever give up!

Recently I've heard a really beautiful story that I would love to share it with you guys

A university professor came to one of his lectures and as he saw his students really unmotivated he suddenly picked up a 20 pound note from his back pocket. There were about hundred students in his class, so he asked who would like to get that note. Obviously all of the hundred students attending his lecture raised their hand. The professor said: oh, that’s interesting although I’m not surprised. Let me ask you something else… he took that 20 pound note and he folded it into half and then asked again: how many of you still want this note? Once more all the students raised their hand .

Let me try something else… continued the professor. He took the note and just as badly as he could he crumpled it and he asked: How many of you want this note now? Still all those hands went up. Eventually he chucked it on the floor he screwed it with his shoe and crumpled it more he picked it back up. He looked at it and said… this 20 pound note is full of dirt it is smashed so I ask you again: How many of you want this note? For the last time all hands went up and looked at them and he said
Today you’ve learned a really important lesson. No matter how much I scrunched up and destroyed that note, how many times it was trodden on you still wanted it because it still had its value. So just like this 20 pounds note was still worth 20 pounds so are you! No matter how many failures you have, no matter how bad life treats you, no matter how much you mess up you still have your value.

The knowledge and experience that you gain, the wisdom that you attain the person that you become that can never be taken away from you.

The clothes that you wear are not important, how much money there is in your bank account or what kind of car you drive because our value is not created by those material things it is the value of you as a person what really matters!